We have been trying for a rather long time to get Madison potty-trained. It was a process that I thought might last until at least her 12th birthday. Some kids seem to be so easy and decide they want to be out of diapers immediately; not our Madison.
Anything besides a diaper was too boring, too weird, too scratchy, too big, too spotty, too plain … you get the picture. Everyday I would encourage her to try what ‘big girls’ wear. Last Monday, I think she ran out of excuses. She told me she had to wear a diaper because the big girl underwear is what she wore when she got ‘mare-ed’ (married). I laughed, it had come to that.
We tried books, videos, and rewards. We let her pick out her special big girl underwear and tried most every bit of advice we received. Literally everything we tried was either not at all an option for her, or would only encourage her for a day or two. Our doctor even suggested acting like it was not a big deal in the hopes that if we were causing too much pressure, she would do it on her own. Nothing worked.
However, in true Madison-fashion, on her own she decided last Tuesday, May 22nd that she was done with diapers. She gave no warning. She gave no indication this would be happening. She didn’t even act like it was a big deal. But, I must say, it’s been a wonderful surprise. Tuesday night she wore a diaper to bed and that was her last diaper.
She has worn pull-ups the last several days, but we’ve gone ahead and moved her to big girl underwear. She takes herself to the bathroom and does not even want me in there with her. We don’t even have to ask her if she has to use the bathroom, she either tells us or takes care of it herself. She acts like all of this is old hat and she’s been doing it for years. It really is rather amazing. We still get all excited every time she goes. She just looks at us like we’ve lost our marbles. I tell her, “I’m so proud of you!” She gives me a hug and says, “I’m proud of you too, Momma.”
Heck, I’m proud of all of us. This has been a journey. But, we have arrived!
Way to go sweet girl!
